Letting babies grow in their own time doesn’t mean they won’t become independent. It means they’ll trust you to care for them when they need it, and when they do separate you’ll know their independence is real and not a mask they’re putting on.
@naomicfisher Your tweets also apply to dogs: The use of fear to control puppies is so ubiquitous that most owners don’t even realise they are doing it. They’d never describe it that way. But in so many different ways, the puppies feel it. Here’s what it looks like. 1/